I really need some help...

[nonom]

Hokay, my cousin is going out with a bigtime perve named Zach as of yesterday. I have heard that she flashed him and he fingered her. They are only 14 and they HAVE ONLY BEEN GOING OUT FOR ONE DAY. There is a slight possibility that this is just a rumor. My brain hopes it's not true but my heart tells me it is. If I encounter this Zach, who was a good friend of mine, I am going to deliver the single most nosebone-crushing blow ever blown. However, that will be the easy part. He is only half the problem. What I need help wih is what to do with my cousin. I have come to the conclusion that there is no good way to deal with this. Now, I am not a virgin, But the only girl I have ever had sex with had been going out with me for a year before we did anything more than kiss. What the hell should I do?

[Sullivan]

he has fun, she has fun, call up as ex-boyfriend and threaten to do something..


I don know!!!..if he fingered her, i think she did more then flash him.

[nonom]

I really don't care what she does with anyone else, but this guy is a fullfledged perv. If it was with anyother respectable guy, I wouldn't mind. Also, they have only been going out for one day. Anyone but him.

[AskAboutMe]

Punch his ass in the face, Then have a threesome!

[Coleman4747]

lol this is funny ur asking for help online ... and 1 year is along time to wait i usually wait around a month
btw.... ur screwed

[mofo196]

Show her this.

[DarthWalker]

Show her this.

OHHHHH!!!! MYYYYYYY!!!!! GODDDDDDD!!!! -pukes-

Oh and dude, nonom, just let your cousin do her thing man. Sometimes its best if you just let her find stuff out on her own. It is her life after all and she will be pissed at you for fucking with HER life. Frankly nothing really gives anyone the rite to fuck up anyones relationships. If they like each other then let them be.

The most you can do without meddling is talk to her. I repeat TALK to her, let her know she got your support and friendship for her choice. Be a good cousin and if things dont work out be there for when they end it. Life is one big lesson, and if you get told what to do you dont learn anything.

Cheat your way through school, and you can manage the life of an idiot. Work your way through school and you can manage the life of learned person. Same rule applys for life. Take away her experiance, and she will have poorer judgement for the next guy to walts up. See what im saying?

[PSP_Bro]

Eh, let it go...If your cousin allows it, it's all her decisions. I don't think being 14 makes them too young...I mean, I'm 14. And unless your cousin told you, you don't know if any of it's true. Either way, just let it play out, I know I'd get pissed if someone was mettling in one of my relationships

[nonom]

Okay....

Punch his ass in the face, Then have a threesome!

Eww. She's my cousin.

Show her this.

Eww. I'm pretty sure you're not allowed to post pornographic material on this site, and, no offense, but respected member or not, that deserves a temporary ban.

Oh and dude, nonom, just let your cousin do her thing man. Sometimes its best if you just let her find stuff out on her own. It is her life after all and she will be pissed at you for fucking with HER life. Frankly nothing really gives anyone the rite to fuck up anyones relationships. If they like each other then let them be.

The thing is, he doesn't see her as anything more than a good thrill. This is why I want to mess him up if it's true. And even if it isn't, the second I heard the news of them hooking up, I immediately explained to her, in a 30 minute sesion of sorts, what a perv he is. However, she won't listen to reason and left without even saying goodbye. I have tried to talk to her before this fiasco, and it wasn't that bad. Now, after it, it's going to be much harder. Him I can deal with, verbally, phisically, or maybe even mentally. I seem to have ways to make people go insane, but her, well, that brings me back to my first point, what do I say?

[PSP_Bro]

First off. Is she hot?
Second off, let your cousin learn the hard way if she won't listen to you, she'll appreciate it after, but you can't be like, "I told you so" because then you'd look like a duesche bag.
Third of all Mofo always posts that shit...you learn to love his random collection of disturbing links.

[Julie]

for a price i can scare the shit out of him

[nonom]

First off. Is she hot?
Second off, let your cousin learn the hard way if she won't listen to you, she'll appreciate it after, but you can't be like, "I told you so" because then you'd look like a duesche bag.
Third of all Mofo always posts that shit...you learn to love his random collection of disturbing links.

First, dude, she's my cousin, I can't answer that.
Second, if I let her learn the hard way, then I have to see her in all that pain and I'm going to bash this guy's head in anyway and she won't realize I was right, but she will get mad at me for not telling her sooner. Ten bucks says it's that time of the month when she realizes it. Also, I don't want her to get pregnant. I love her a lot (not like that sickos) and I can't stand to see her in pain, from herself, Zach, her family, and her friends. I just would not be able to handle that and I don't think she would either.
Third, I'm never, EVER clicking on another of his links in school again.

[stinkypitz]

Tell him to use a condom.

[Julie]

i say break his hands with a clawhammer. teachs good touch from bad touch

[mofo196]

Eww. I'm pretty sure you're not allowed to post pornographic material on this site, and, no offense, but respected member or not, that deserves a temporary ban.

I didn't post pornographic material, I merely provided a link. Posting would have been having the image directly in my reply.

I also can't help but think that if you followed my advice and showed her that .gif, your problems would be over.